My “Can-Fam” and I spent a week at our friend’s cottage in Temagami, Ontario: a five-hour drive to North Bay from Toronto, another hour plus drive north from there, and then a boat ride to the island. The island, depending on which boat landing you use, can take 15 to 40 minutes to get to by speedboat.
It felt, and sounds (in UK terms) like we had travelled really far north yet we hadn’t even come close to the summit of the province. Just take a look at a map. Laughable once you see where exactly we were but, people, we were on our own. Secluded and surrounded by water, the island is wild and untamed. I would have liked to include something here about me also being wild and untamed, but that would have been a lie because a) anxiety and b) anxiety. My stupid need to control things. And yet, I love going away to a cottage.
Let me define cottage: this is not a thatched roof construction with tidy lawns and a picnic bench. A cottage in Ontario means forest, lakes, and wildlife. With the population being only half of that of the UK, the only people you’re going to see are the friends you go with (hopefully).
The cottage was as close to camping without being in a tent as you could get. Some glamorous additions included a scenic outdoor shower, boat house, and bunkies with bedrooms. Taxidermy pieces like a wing-spread owl and fluffy lynx decorated the interior. It was cute, cosy, and a world away from the city.
We spent five days swimming (I can’t, so I floated), reading, and making homemade pizzas on the barbeque. I went fishing, caught a fish, and threw it back (unharmed). Evenings were spent playing camp-style games, drinking, and telling stories. Loon Lodge, accommodation with café on the lake, took me by surprise. Located near family camping, the lodge rents rooms and sells milkshakes, ice creams and lunchtime options so we nipped by for snacks. I didn’t expect the opportunity to shop – whatever the capacity. At the time of writing this Loon Lodge is up for sale and sadly, may even be closed.
At night we all lay on the dock haphazardly cuddled together watching shooting stars until it got too cold.
What I’ve typically found in Ontario is that cottages are passed on through generations. People do buy, but it’s generally expensive and proximity to Toronto comes at a cost. Places like Muskoka and Kawartha Lakes are highly coveted and can therefore be pricey, but you can find beautiful cottages anywhere; typically, the further north the more affordable. It helps if you know someone in the area to give you tip-offs. Aside from any opportunities to visit friend’s cottages though (always be a good guest) you can rent: Air BnB, VRBO.com, and a general Google search will find you plenty of options.
Whenever I go away to a cottage with Canadian friends I realize how far I swing to one end of the English spectrum. I seek shade, the indoors, I get restless, and I crave a cup of tea. My Canadians excel at chilling out and I’m beginning to learn: one trip, one mosquito bite, one more tan line at a time.